Bree's Story

“When you choose a doctor, you're trusting someone with your life and your baby's life. I didn’t realize how critical that was at first. It didn’t really hit me until I had complications.”

When Bree and her husband were thinking about having children, she asked her primary care provider if she had any recommendations for an OB/GYN. She told Bree to check out Women’s Care of Wisconsin.

That’s just what Bree did.

And we asked her about it.

This might take a while, and you have a three-month-old. Is this a good time?

Elsie’s not asleep, but if I need to pick her up, I will. Let’s just see how it goes:)

What was the first step you took in finding a provider at Women’s Care of Wisconsin?

I went to the website, checked out the videos, and came across Dr. Schloesser. Her statements were compelling and I thought she’d make a great doctor for me.

You said your selection was crucial. Can you explain what you mean by that?

With my first, Aubrey, I got high blood pressure around 20 weeks. Even though I wasn’t necessarily high risk, Dr. Schloesser kept a very close eye on me. I was so thankful she did because I was diagnosed with preeclampsia at 35 weeks.

Then when I got pregnant with my second daughter, Elsie, I ended up getting high blood pressure again. I always felt like preeclampsia was looming over me after having it once before, but felt safe with Dr. Schloesser.

Along the way, at some point during my pregnancy with Aubrey, she told me something that has always stuck with me. She said, ‘I know this is not your normal; this is not your every day. And so it is scary to you. But this is my every day. I got you.’ That allowed me to sleep a little bit more soundly at night, and definitely again during my pregnancy with Elsie.

With Dr. Schloesser, I felt very safe and cared for—most importantly, she always helped calm my nerves. If there's anyone who has high blood pressure or preeclampsia, I feel like Dr. Schloesser is definitely the right one.

You had a C-section with Aubrey. Tell us about that.

Aubrey was Frank breech, which means that she was not facing the right direction for a safe, regular delivery. Kind of folded like a taco, bottom down and legs up by her face. Anytime a baby is breech, it's not safe to have a vaginal delivery. My hope was always that Aubrey was going to flip around. If she didn’t, it was going to be a C-section. But in my mind, I just didn't want to believe that that was going to happen. I didn't want to have a C-section.

We had decided we were going to do a version at 36 weeks, a procedure basically where Dr. Schloesser pushes on my stomach to rotate the baby. But then I went in for my 36-week appointment. I had unfortunately gotten really sick the night before and didn't feel well, which was an indication my preeclampsia had gotten worse. And she was like, ‘Yeah, Bree, it's time. We’ve got to go have the baby.’  So we went upstairs, and after doing some additional tests she said, ‘It's your choice if you want to do the version, but there are risks involved with it.’ We decided to go with the unplanned C-section.

And it went well?

Yes, it went really well; however, I wasn’t thrilled with being awake for a major abdominal surgery.  Although every doctor and nurse in the operating room was incredibly calm and caring, I felt terrified. I’m truthfully just afraid of blood and surgeries. Thankfully, Dr. Schloesser really got to know me well throughout my pregnancy, so she came in beforehand and helped me stay calm. And prior to that when I was diagnosed with preeclampsia, she called me personally and let me know that pretty much moving forward, at every appointment, I’d need to have my bag packed. She let me know what to expect so I could be mentally prepared.

Did you have any anxiousness that you’d experience high blood pressure with your second pregnancy?

Dr. Schloesser let me know I was likely to get high blood pressure again, and it could be earlier (and she was right). Though I was nervous about getting preeclampsia again, I felt safe with Dr. Schloesser, who kept an extremely close eye on me throughout my pregnancy with Elsie. With the help of medication to help stabilize my blood pressure, Dr. Schloesser’s expertise, and a healthy(ish) diet, I was able to make it to 38 weeks when I delivered Elsie.

And you didn’t have to have another C-section with your second baby?

With a toddler at home and a C-section requiring a longer recovery, I wanted to experience a natural birth for my second child. Obviously I was going to do whatever was safest for us, but my preference was a VBAC (vaginal birth after cesarean). I was thrilled it worked out that way and was so happy Dr. Schloesser was there to deliver our baby. My experience was so empowering and she was such a great cheerleader.

I remember being so scared right before, especially when she said, ‘Hey, it's time.’ I'd been waiting all day in the hospital, it was taking so long, and I was convinced that we were going to end up in a C-section. Despite all the mental preparation, I started crying and said, ‘I'm so scared.’ And she was like, ‘Why are you scared? You got this! You're gonna do great!’ My doctor, my cheerleader, my friend.

Anything else you’d like to share about the experience?

Just to say that Dr. Schloesser definitely brought the calm. And not just the calm, but she really knows her stuff. Very fact-based, very up to date on research. For instance, the research regarding high blood pressure changed from when I was pregnant with Aubrey to when I was pregnant with Elsie. She was all over it, letting me know that they were going to intervene sooner to keep my blood pressure at a normal rate. She tested me throughout, getting the information we needed to help us make good decisions. She really helped me get through everything.

One final thought?

Yes! Pregnancy is wild. The hormones and emotions. Growing a life inside of you. It is amazing and incredibly special. However, having someone who you can trust and who you know actually cares makes all the difference.

Meet Caitlin Timmers MD

“I truly enjoy working through complex medical issues with my patients, as well as the typical day-to-day health questions," she began.

Meet Dr. Caitlin Timmers, Women’s Care of Wisconsin’s newest provider.

From a young age, Caitlin Timmers had a passion for caring for others. She anticipated going into nursing and was working as a certified nursing assistant by the time she was 16. Later she would work closely with a physician assistant and told her father that she had decided on her future.

“I’m going to be a PA! And I get to assist in the OR!” she told him.

His response, knowing his daughter’s fascination with anatomy and all science-related subjects, was immediate: “Well, why don’t you just be the surgeon?”

“What a concept!” she said. “I had no real clue what I wanted to do exactly, but just like that it all made sense.”

Caitlin entered med school thinking she was going to be a trauma surgeon and felt that way for a long time. That is, right up until her final rotation, which happened to be OB/GYN.

“That’s when I found my people,” she said. “I found where I needed to be.”

The field satisfied her two passions: first, that she could do procedures, and second—more importantly—that she would be able to form relationships with patients.

A board-certified OB/GYN, Caitlin cares for patients in all phases of life, from adolescents struggling with menstruation cycles, women of reproductive age requiring annual exams or obstetric care, and post-menopausal women dealing with a variety of concerns.

“I get to work with women and take care of them for their entire lives,” she said.

Caitlin relishes the development of deep relationships with her patients, who appreciate her wide-ranging expertise—which includes robotic surgery for complex cases—and her innate ability to create a warm and comfortable space where open conversations are the norm.

That begins with listening.

“I think it's really important to really listen to patients to get an idea of where they're coming from, to let them tell me what's going on, any factors that are contributing to their issue, how it's impacting their life, and what their goals are,” said Caitlin. “That’s how to start if you want to build a relationship. And that’s the most rewarding part of my profession.”

Caitlin shared something from her personal history that she said helped her greatly as a provider.

“I had a pretty major surgery in my early 20s, had complications from it, and had to stay in the hospital for a longer period of time than expected. That really put me in the patient's shoes and made me see just how difficult that can be, to not necessarily know the outcome, if I was ever going to be myself again, and what that may have looked like,” said Caitlin. “I understand how scary uncertainty can be, and I make sure my patients know I am there for them.”

Coming back to the area she called home (Caitlin is from Black Creek), Women’s Care of Wisconsin’s newest provider is hitting the ground running and accepting new patients immediately.

“I feel so honored to be in this profession. Obstetrics and gynecology has allowed me to develop lasting relationships with women and assist them through some of the biggest milestones in their lives."

Dr. Caitlin Timmers sees patients at Women’s Care of Wisconsin’s Appleton location.

 

 

Lindsey's Story

“I had very easy pregnancies,” Lindsey began. “Minus the big babies. I have very big babies.”

The obvious follow up question was asked.

“So my first was 10 lbs. 9 oz. My second was 9 lbs. 5 oz. Then my third was 11 lbs., and my last was 10lbs. 7 oz.,” Lindsey said. “Not exactly easy on me, for sure, but not so easy on Dr. Vandenberg either.”

We had more questions for Lindsey. Here are the answers she supplied about her provider while simultaneously caring for four little ones.

How did you find Dr. Vandenberg?

Before I had my first, a friend of mine was going to Women’s Care and really loved it. So I started with Dr. Reed and loved her, but she went on maternity leave and set me up with her colleague and friend, Dr. Vandenberg. Dr. Reed thought I would mesh well with Dr. Vandenberg, and I must say she was exactly what I needed in a doctor. The first time I met her I just knew. With your first pregnancy, everything is new and a little scary, but she made me feel so comfortable right from the start. Dr. Vandenberg did all four of my c-sections.

How would you describe Dr. Vandenberg?

I would describe Dr. Vandenberg as someone who’s easy to talk to. She truly cares; I honestly feel very cared for by her. She's someone that will listen and kind of weigh out options with you. And one thing that I really liked is I never felt rushed, even though I know she's a very busy lady. Oh, and I ask a lot of questions. I mean, I go in with typed stuff. I like to be thorough. Plus I’m a talker. She never once made me feel rushed, and she always wanted me to leave feeling confident in my decisions. Just such a sweet and caring provider. I’d say she’s a perfect provider for someone that is a little bit nervous, as I was.

Any particular moments that stand out about Dr. Vandenberg?

Oh, yes. So many times she reassured me, and that has always meant so much. And the times she stepped in for the nurse and hugged me during the spinals. I always get emotional the day of my c-section, and Dr. Vandenberg always takes good care of me. I didn't realize how delicate she was with me through my pregnancies until I met other providers that were very, very good but way more blunt. 

Anything else you’d like to add?

It seems everyone knows Dr. Vandenberg. Once at a splash pad three of us moms got to talking about our OBs. We started laughing because we all had the same story: each of us was a patient of Dr. Vandenberg’s and we all loved her! Even at the hospital, nurses would say, ‘We love Dr. Vandenberg. She’s our doctor too!’ I think she's just all around an amazing doctor. She feels like part of our family, obviously. Maria has been there for every child coming into this world, and it's just so special.

 

The Circle of Care: The Patients Speak

Nurse Practitioner Caroline Abel on the Circle of Care at Women's Care of Wisconsin:

"Empowerment is at the heart of our Circle of Care. I work in partnership with my patients to create individualized plans of care that help them to be successful in their healthcare journey. I learn from you and you learn from me. Together, we can get you where you need to be."

Today, during National Nurse Practitioner Week, we share Macy's comments about her NP, which speak to the importance of the relationship between patient and provider:

I have been to see Caroline, APNP, several times for different reasons. Caroline is AMAZING! She makes you feel comfortable the minute she walks in the room and says hello. Caroline listened to my concerns and helped me make informative decisions regarding my health. She is beyond understanding and very knowledgeable. Women’s Care of Wisconsin is lucky to have such a wonderful provider. Thank you Caroline! 

~Macy B. 

Kendra’s Story

“I really felt in my spirit after having such a good midwife experience with my first child, which was a difficult pregnancy, that I wanted that same experience with my second pregnancy.”

Here’s how Kendra found Jenny Taubel. And as they say, the rest is history:

I originally started with a midwife at Women's Care who is no longer there. And then I started with another who changed roles and was no longer delivering babies. Because of recommendations I had from friends, I actually scheduled an appointment with an OB, but I really felt in my spirit after having such a good midwife experience with my first child—which was a difficult pregnancy—that I wanted that same experience with my second pregnancy.

There were two choices for midwives, and simply put I went with the one that was closer to me. That was Jenny, and I cannot explain how grateful I am to her.

I have a really cool story that speaks to Jenny’s care. I had a very difficult pregnancy. I had to go to the ER seven times in two weeks. Oh, my God, it was awful. Every time it was late in the night or early in the morning, so my husband would stay home with our four-year-old. I’d drag myself out of bed and call a friend, and be crying the whole way there. If you want to share this next part, I don’t mind: I had urinary retention. I had to have a catheter bag, and then the catheter got infected, so I had to get it taken out.

This was on a Friday, and I know Jenny doesn’t work on Fridays. She sent me a message that said, “I’m thinking about you, and I want to tell you how brave you are.” Sending this little note to me, just when I needed it, solidified my choice even though my pregnancy could be considered high risk.

Jenny went above and beyond in other ways, too. She’s very hands-on, and as soon as we talked about urinary retention, she was helping me find solutions. Wrote me a referral right away for physical therapy. Got me set up with the urology group, and even called there to see if I could get in sooner.

I just feel Jenny went the extra mile that perhaps not every provider would. I can’t say enough about her. She supports you, she loves and encourages you, she builds you up. She’s your biggest champion. When I was going through a dark season in my pregnancy and was very sick, every week Jenny continued to encourage me. “I'm proud of you,” she’d say each time. I felt so cared for.

I was induced when I was three weeks early (preeclampsia), so Jenny wasn’t able to deliver the baby. My baby went straight into the NICU, which was hard. Jenny came to visit me in the hospital, and she sat and talked to me about all my concerns, how I was doing, the NICU experience. And then she said to me, “Make sure when you come see me that you bring your baby. I can’t wait to meet her.”

That was really precious to me. When I went for my six-week appointment, I brought Mira, and it really felt like it came full circle.

Amanda’s Story

“This is baby’s life, my family’s life. This is our future.”

Amanda’s story is unique, of course. It’s also universal, this story of a mother who needed answers and endeavored to find them.

And her message to every expectant mom, simple yet profound, should be emblazoned on t-shirts, billboards, mountaintops.

In her own words, this is Amanda’s journey:

I have a history of two normal labors and deliveries, but not the best experience afterwards. Both times I had retained placenta (when the placenta is not expelled from the uterus following delivery, which leaves the mother susceptible to infection and extreme blood loss). For my third pregnancy, at twenty weeks, I went to my provider and, following a scan, they told me I had placenta previa, a condition where the placenta attaches low in the uterus and partially or completely covers the cervix, potentially causing severe bleeding in the mother before, during or after delivery and leads to a c-section. The provider just said it was common and normally resolves by delivery. We were just grateful everything was fine with the baby at the time and didn’t fully process the ‘placenta previa.’

Of course, at home I looked up placenta previa. I found there were different types of placenta previa— marginal (partially covering the cervix) or complete (fully covering the cervix)—and that distinction mattered. Marginal placenta previa resolved itself in about 90% of the cases, but with complete previa, there was more risk of significant premature bleeding and a necessary c-section. In my research, it seemed other providers gave patients measurements of how much it was covering the cervix and restrictions to try and prevent maternal bleeding.

I called my provider back.

“We’re not sure, but we’ll have you back in the third trimester and check it again. Really not a concern.”

This is where I had a gut feeling to get a second opinion.

Back in 2021, I had a miscarriage, and my previous OB provider had retired. Dr. Swift, although 45 minutes from where I lived, was the only OB I found willing to fit me into her schedule and helped me through that difficult time. So that was my connection to her, and while I hadn’t seen her since (I wanted a provider closer to home), I scheduled an appointment with her at 24 weeks for a second opinion. I was really just wanting ‘piece of mind’ to see if the placenta had started to move and there was less chance of bleeding, but she came in after the ultrasound with more than I wanted or expected to hear. 

Along with stating the placenta previa was definitely ‘complete,’ she said it looked ‘spicy and membrany’ and alerted me to the possibility I might develop a rare condition called ‘vasa previa.’ This means the baby’s (fetal) vessels go over the cervix and can lead to severe fetal blood loss and she told me I might end up losing my uterus because of what she termed a “sticky placenta.” 

Swift said be ready for a 36-week baby and potentially the loss of my uterus.

Okay, let’s just say I was kind of upset and shocked with the news. I was just expecting confirmation of the placenta previa and had hoped it had already started moving. I had never heard of ‘vasa previa’ before and I didn’t know that my placenta sticking to the uterus was even a possibility. 

As it would turn out, unfortunately, Dr. Swift was correct. I actually had a bi-lobed placenta, meaning I had two placentas, the main posterior one (and the only one identified on the 20-week ultrasound) and a secondary anterior accessory lobe. Between those two placentas there’s a membrane of baby’s blood vessels over the cervix that wasn’t protected by placenta—Type 2 vasa previa.

What that means is if you go into labor (cervix dilating, water breaks, contractions) or strain too much, the vessels rupture and hemorrhage and the baby can bleed out in less than 10 minutes, causing death or brain damage.

I was in denial, upset and frustrated that the other doctor hadn’t told me that. I was overwhelmed and anxious and had no idea what questions to ask at the time. 

I didn’t think I wanted to see Dr. Swift anymore. I was hopeful she was mistaken, the original provider correct. 

So, I went back to my original provider and after a couple more scans, they confirmed what Swift had said. I mean, they confirmed it technically, but as far as I’m concerned Swift gets credit for the diagnosis. Without her intervention, no one would have known about it yet. That’s the scary thing: my provider originally said they weren’t going to recheck the placenta until 32 weeks and in my research, many times the exposed vessel isn’t seen that late in the pregnancy as the baby's head is in the way. If this diagnosis was missed, it could have been devastating to baby.

As much as I didn’t want to believe Dr. Swift, she ended up saving our baby.

My original provider referred me to the maternal fetal medicine (MFM) specialists. They re-confirmed and said I’d be hospitalized between 28-32 weeks, with a goal of a c-section at 34 weeks (the reason for inpatient hospitalization is in case of premature rupture of the membranes and fetal vessels, the only chance of baby survival is to be close to an operating room).

I was still processing: How do I go from originally just placenta previa and a 90% chance of any issues resolving themselves to a worst-case scenario of being hospitalized and having a c-section after four weeks of being inpatient? I was still in denial and had two other kids at home to take care of.

I got the feeling from my providers that this was rare and scary, even for them. My anxiety intensified after seeing this MFM knowing I’d have a NICU baby at 34 weeks. I was grateful baby was healthy but felt so bad baby would be forced out so early and wanted to see if there were other options.

This is baby’s life, my family’s life. This is our future. If I start bleeding or go into premature labor, will baby die? That would be devastating, and on my conscience—forever. If baby is born so early and survives, will baby have health issues or learning disabilities? 

I really needed a provider that was confident and that I could trust. So, I thought I’d take steps to make that so. I’m very much an advocate for myself and just wanted to make sure that I was seeing the right doctor and that this rare complication was being treated properly. After the diagnosis was confirmed, I was up late every night for weeks doing my own research. 

And here’s what I found: older research confirmed that the 28-32 inpatient and 34-week delivery was indeed the recommended timeline. But I looked at every scientific article I could find and discovered that newer research suggested a different timeline was plausible, one that got you to 36 weeks or more.

Finding those studies was one thing, interpreting them another. 

I decided to reach out to the authors of these scholarly papers I had researched to understand my situation better. What’s the worst thing that can happen? They don’t respond?

Guess what? I talked with a maternal fetal medicine doctor from one of the Harvard hospitals in Boston, a leader in the field. He called me on a Sunday evening and we talked for an hour and a half and went over all his research and advice. Another expert was from Houston; he got in touch with me late at night after he was done seeing patients. Yet another MFM from Chicago called me on a Saturday afternoon!

The expert doctors doing the research for this are so passionate, and so generous, and it made such a difference in my anxiety to be informed.

I had a gut feeling about this, and followed it through. I guess this is one of the main messages I want people to take from my story: when you have that gut feeling, listen to your instincts, always listen to your intuition, because it will serve you well. If I would have ignored it, our outcome would have been very different.

The expert from Boston actually came out of retirement to research vasa previa more, because many babies are being born too prematurely unnecessarily since so many providers are scared of this condition. If vasa previa goes undiagnosed, that’s the worst-case scenario. I learned that a high percentage of situations where you go into labor at home or your water breaks will result in the death of baby. If it’s diagnosed, there’s a very high chance that baby will be fine. He wanted to spread the research that patients can make it further and can get to 36 or 37 weeks safely in uncomplicated cases.

He gave me comfort, telling me now that I had been diagnosed (thank you Dr. Swift), the hard part was done. I just needed to find the right provider.

Long story short, I went back to the original provider and maternal fetal medicine specialists, and they were going off the older data of early hospitalization and delivery at 34 weeks. They weren’t receptive to the new data and said we should just get baby out and let NICU take over. There’s a big difference in a baby born at 34 weeks needing NICU vs 36 weeks (if I could make it that far). I felt like a number, being treated from a page in a textbook from twenty years ago. I was nervous to go “inpatient’ under this provider because I knew I wouldn’t be in control and didn’t trust them to deliver baby even earlier. I’m sure they had the best intentions at heart. Maybe it was just me, being a difficult patient. I didn't want to make anybody uncomfortable. I just wanted to find a provider that was more confident and that I could trust to be in control of mine and baby’s lives.

At 28 weeks, I had a bleeding episode after going for a walk and playing with my toddler. On the way to the hospital I was so scared that they’d deliver baby unnecessarily or keep me there until delivery that I had my husband pull over at a gas station to use the bathroom and the bleeding had stopped and baby was kicking (the bleeding was from the placental and not fetal vessels). I do not recommend this—in hindsight this was very risky and I was lucky. This made me realize the reality and danger of the situation. My anxiety about bleeding and losing the baby after this episode was pretty bad. I was grateful for the distraction of work and my other kids and thankful for the help of grandparents!

My gut, once again, was telling me something, namely that I shouldn’t be going back to my original providers. 

The next day I scheduled appointments with MFM doctors in Madison and Milwaukee to see if they were up to date on the latest research. I figured a month away from home being inpatient was a short amount of time in the grand scheme of things to travel further if it meant a healthy baby.

As part of my research, I joined an international Facebook group on vasa previa and asked a question: ‘Anyone in Wisconsin have this, and where did you go?’ And there was somebody who delivered at Women’s Care at 37 weeks, and she happened to have Dr. Reed. 37 weeks!!

I called Women’s Care to make an appointment with Dr. Swift again, but because of needing to get in asap and her being booked, I got to see Dr. Reed. 

I actually didn’t tell Dr. Reed anything about my research. She came in prepared with all of my previous history and was up to date on all the latest research for vasa without me even saying anything. She thought we could aim for 36/37 week delivery and 34/35 week inpatient as long as there were no complications. I asked her all the questions I had after doing my research and all of her answers followed the most recent data. She said we didn’t even need to see MFM. I was impressed! 

Finally! I felt instant relief. I knew Women’s Care and ThedaCare-Neenah was where baby and I needed to be. 

I switched to Dr. Swift since she had made the original diagnosis. She agreed with Dr. Reed that I could go to 36-37 weeks and was also up to date on the latest research. She treated me like a person and looked at my clinical situation and not just a textbook. At one of my appointments while I was hooked up to the contraction and fetal monitor, she came in and spent her entire lunch with me, and I know she’s a busy lady. The first thing Dr. Swift asked me was about my mental state.

‘How are you feeling?’ she asked.

No one had ever asked me that before. 

She was very informative and treated me like a friend. She cared about making the best possible decisions together for my situation. I knew I could trust her and that she had mine and baby’s best interest in mind and I could just sense her confidence when she told me not to worry, that it would be okay (I know that’s not always true but still comforting).

I also saw Dr. Vandenberg a few times during my hospital stay as well as other providers and I can tell you without hesitation: Women’s Care doctors are in a different league. Their compassion. Their confidence. Their knowledge. Their bedside manner. I wish all patients could experience this level of care.

I went inpatient at ThedaCare-Neenah at 33 weeks and 4 days, a little earlier just because I was anxious with previous providers wanting to admit earlier and I'd have a hard time forgiving myself if something happened at home. I was monitored three times a day with NST testing (fetal and contraction monitors). Baby gave us a few heart rate scares and had contractions daily, but the doctors always remained calm and encouraging.

I forgot to mention I’m a big wimp with blood draws and IVs, so I was terrified of being cut open for a c- section. Again, Dr. Swift and the nurses were amazing and encouraging that everything would be okay and always went above and beyond to explain things and ease my mind. Dr. Swift stopped in daily to check on me and chat. Not only did I appreciate her as a well-educated doctor, but also as an incredible person being a friend to me in the hospital.

I was at the hospital for 3 weeks. Living on the Labor and Delivery floor I got to witness, firsthand, top notch doctors and nurses that truly care. Our precious little vasa previa survivor, Thomas James, was delivered June 12, 36 weeks plus one day. Dr. Swift and I picked this goal date and we made it!

Seven pounds, 14 ounces. A month early and no NICU time. Relief, grateful, exhausted—so many emotions. All the research and anxiety was worth it.

After months of worry I felt oddly as calm as possible for the surgery. I was able to put all my faith in Dr. Swift and knew that I had chosen the best provider for us. The delivery had its moments. After I got the spinal, my blood pressure went down and that affected baby, but Dr. Swift was very quick at getting him out. My placenta was indeed sticking to the uterus (something termed accreta). She warned me ahead of time she may need to take my uterus and do a hysterectomy to prevent major hemorrhaging, but she was able to get it out at the last second and save my uterus and a blood transfusion. Dr. Swift communicated exactly what she was doing and she and her team kept me calm and informed the entire time.

I did ask doctor to take photos of my placenta and after seeing the multiple large exposed fetal vessels was humbled by how lucky we were and that Dr. Swift caught this problem. Dr. Swift is an amazingly talented surgeon. I was always confident she had everything under control. And she was fast!

I feel like she saved my baby, saved my fertility, saved us NICU time, and helped get me through a long hospital stay. Without her diagnosis and care, my sweet little baby boy, Thomas, may not be here today. 

She saved us both.

Photography by Erika Krause

 

 

Achieving Your Ideal Birth: One Mother's Story

Following the birth of her daughter Emory and her son Everett, both delivered by an OB/GYN she called phenomenal, Natalie Demler was greeted with the news that her longtime provider was leaving the area.

She found out three weeks before her due date.

"I'd been with him since I turned 21," Natalie said. "We had a really close bond; he was with us during our miscarriage. I was pretty devastated that he was leaving and worried about how things were going to go. That's when I found Kay."

In her search for a new provider, Natalie contacted Women's Care of Wisconsin, and the receptionist felt that midwife Kay Weina would be a great fit for her. Natalie asked around and heard nothing but good things ("Kay's amazing!" "You'll love her!").

At 35 weeks, Natalie met Weina for the first time and transferred her care to the midwife.

"She hugged me, and immediately asked if I wanted a tour around the facility and to look at the room," Natalie said. "She was so personable and right away I had a feeling that everything was going to be fine, that she was going to take good care of me and the baby."

Weina made clear that whatever vision Natalie had for the birth was the way they were going to make it happen.

"Birth is sacred and spiritual for every woman, and it's every woman's own unique experience to bring a child in the world," Natalie said. "My husband and I prayed every day that we'd find the perfect provider, one who believes in you and helps you through intense moments. 

I knew Kay was going to be there for me. She made me feel safe."

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Kay delivered Elsie Rae on July 13, 2023

"Kay was phenomenal during labor, cheering me on. Jake was encouraging me the whole time. I focused in on what I needed to do. With Kay and Jake's support, Elsie was born into a room full of love and joy."