Baby Grayson is 10 weeks today. Mom had left us a heartfelt Google review that began with, “Brubaker was my doctor through my first pregnancy.”
Later, we chatted with Melinda and asked her to talk about her experience in more detail. This time, she began with a car crash.
She already had us at “Hello.”
This is Melinda’s story:
I wasn’t quite expecting to be pregnant and didn’t find out until I crashed my car. I passed out because of my blood pressure and found out at the hospital, so definitely a surprise. After finding out I was pregnant, I knew I needed to find care. So I did my research, found highly rated providers in the area on Google and decided to go with Dr. Allison Brubaker. She had really good reviews, and after watching her video I thought she was the one for me.
And from there, it was a little bit scary at first, because I wasn't sure what to expect with pregnancy and knowing that I have a type of Crohn's disease where I already knew that I wouldn't be able to have a vaginal birth. So it was going to be a planned C-section, and I was really worried about that the whole time, but Brubaker made sure to ease my mind at every single appointment by letting me know what to expect.
When I hit about 20 weeks with him, they found out that he wasn't quite growing as he should be, so they ended up scheduling me two appointments each week just to make sure that he was going to be okay. Still, I was in kind of in a panic, worried that my body might not be okay for the baby. But at each appointment I would hear his heartbeat and see that everything was looking good.
Brubaker would also touch base with me and make sure that I knew that he was hitting his goals. Blood work was done to check my levels and make sure that I was doing okay too. Closer to the end of my pregnancy she was doing frequent NST checks.
Regarding the planned C-section, I was definitely scared about the procedure itself, of having to be awake. I was also concerned about the scarring because I have some body image issues, so I was worried about what that would look like.
As for the surgery, which ended up being at 37 weeks, I felt a little bit of the tugs, kind of a strange feeling but it didn’t hurt, and the next thing you know Brubaker is pulling my baby over and showing him through the see-through curtain. It was so precious seeing him for the first time.
I had talked to her previously and one of the things I had really wanted was skin-to-skin contact, so they brought Grayson over to me for a short while, at least until he started turning colors. They took him back and found he didn’t have the stuff that coats his lungs (surfactant), so Grayson ended up going to the NICU for a week.
But only for a week, because he’s a little fighter. Five pounds, eight ounces.
Grayson is actually a really calm baby. Takes a lot of naps, and he only wakes up when he's hungry or if he's got some discomfort, like a wet diaper. He's doing all the things that he should be, he's discovering things, he's reaching for his toys when I put him on his play mat. He's hitting his goals, which is really impressive.
It was really nice to know that I had a doctor like Dr. Brubaker, one that was so reassuring to a first-time mom who was worried about everything. She's a very calm and attentive person. She answered every single question I asked, and she does it in a way where it's not doctor vocabulary.
My 6-week postpartum appointment went really well. I brought Grayson with and she was so happy to see him and to see how much he grew. Her reaction was so cool: “Oh my gosh, he was such a little peanut when I delivered him!” And she wanted to know if I was doing okay as well and made sure I had the resources I needed.
I’m so glad I found Dr. Brubaker. She seems more like a friend that is there for you, the way she goes about her care.
Note: Women’s Care of Wisconsin reached out to Melinda after seeing this Google review:
Brubaker was my doctor through my first pregnancy. As this
was my first it was a little scary and being higher risk it was going to be
overwhelming. Brubaker however was extremely reassuring through everything.
Every question and concern I had was addressed and I felt comfort knowing she
was making sure my baby was going to be okay. My pregnancy did result in a c
section per my health and I was very worried about the entire experience at
first and kept getting reassured step by step what the procedure entails and
how it will look afterwards. On the day of my c section I was nervous until I
was in the OR and Brubaker and the team were there to comfort and reassure me
what’s happening as well as what I would be experiencing. The procedure went
extremely well and Brubaker did an amazing job with everything. I did make
request for when baby was born such as skin to skin and to see him when he was
out and Brubaker made sure my requests were met. I had just taken off my
dressing which can be scary to think what it looks like underneath; however, my
scar is super minimal as she assured me and it looks great! I am extremely
happy with her care and how attentive she is as a doctor and surgeon. I
absolutely recommend seeing her for your pregnancy as she made mine a lot less
scary and more enjoyable. I am so thankful to have had such a great doctor for
my pregnancy and birth experience.